I was dating this guy and I knew he was married but he swore up and down they weren’t ever getting back together. Well of course they did and now me and his wife are kind of friends. Is that wrong?
His wife does know about everything and Im not sure why she wants to be my friend. She came to me to be friends.
My friend and his ex- wife where together for 18 years but then she chated on him with one of her co- workers. They have not been together for 8 months, he helped her with some of her goals she wanted to be a police officer so he send her to school no questions asked and he payed for it also. He would aways be telling hs friends that she was going to be a cop and that he was very proud of her for not giving up, he even helped her with the 2 kids that they have and around the house so she could go to school and get her work done. hen she started to get home late and with left overs he would ask her where she had been and she would get mad. peole would tell him that something was happening so one day she forgot her phone and it started to ring he got it thinking it was her and no it was a text well thinking that it was her he opend it and it read ” I love to eat your p**** and you my c*** why dont we get together today get back i need you” he look in the message file and he found more
text that got very bad. She got home and he asked do you love me she said why do you ask because she said i guess why? He told her what happend with the phone and they got in a fight my friend left the house and for 3 months he did not want to talk to any one at all he got depresed he is trying to forget but her but he still loves her he thinks that they can work it out what do you think should he go back and try to work things out or should he just stay alone. His excuse is that the kids need him at home but i think that we wants to be with her. There are times that they talk but she is just asking him fr money because also she has her house that he payed and every week he will give her from 500 to 1000 dollers just for her to spend he would pay all the bill and her car, phone she had it maid. what do you think help me help him thank you .
After all, he is now in MAJOR debt and serious legal complications with her. Plus, they have a kid together and will have that special bond.
I am not thrilled about having to pay for, what should be his ex-wife’s debts, you know? To answer your question, I had NO idea it would all get this bad. Will she take him back? She bugs the living sh** out of us enough, shouldn’t she be willing to take him back in, along with all of their GAZILLION debts? Good thing I have not changed my maiden name over to his yet. The ex can keep it.
Thanks, MarD. And yes, I am a controlling woman. One whom wishes not to live in the streets because of past debts…
To answer another thing or two…he did not disclose all of this to me prior to marriage. ( of course.) aka; “lying.”
We have no children together. Sorry to say this but, Thank God we do not!
Yeah, @ Creation- it is totally only MY fault for not hiring a P.I. and marrying him out of love, not the fact that I keep finding out more and more lies. Blame the woman much, do we?
Why? would I even dare ask someone to see their bills and paycheck stubs before marriage? I knew how much he made, as he knew how much I made. He lied to me about loans and credit cards they had together! Imagine being called up and threatened about something you have no knowledge of?! His reply? ” Oh. I “forgot” about those things…” Really? What else?
I divorced the ex 2 years ago because she had a mastectomy. Now she has implants, she showed them to me a few weeks ago, and they look great. She asked if I would get back together with her again now. Here’s the problem though, I have a girlfriend, we live together. My GF has put on some weight, so I was kind of thinking about dumping her and going back to my ex. What is your opinion?
I’m 41, my ex is 33, and my girlfriend is 19 if that makes any difference.
Wow, you guys talk like I’m the bad guy or something here.
It must be crying at this very moment as you have just broken up with your ex. Ask yourself some simple questions first if you really want to get your ex back. What is your motive to get your ex back? Are you trying to get your ex back simply because you love your ex? If the answer is affirmative, then you are likely to succeed in your quest in getting your ex back. However, before you try any methods to get your ex back, let me point out some really stupid mistakes that you should avoid if you want to get ur ex back.
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I mean, what if you left your husband cuz you decided you were a lesbian, & after a while you & your girlfreind lost your jobs. Meantime, your loser-ex got successful. So you & your gf decided to charge him with child rape.
No evidence or anything, you & your gf just decided you needed the money?
